Showing posts with label Ian banyard. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Ian banyard. Show all posts

Friday, 11 December 2009

Fearless Decision Making



What stops you making important decisions in life?
What makes you hesitate?

Is it Fear of Loss?
Losing your job? Losing your credibility? Losing face?

Maybe you Fear Rejection?
Being seen as the "bad guy" or no longer Miss Popular, being shunned, excluded or ignored?

Perhaps you Fear being Wrong?
Saying the wrong thing, doing the wrong thing, having insufficient information to make the RIGHT decision and guarantee your success?

Or is it a Fear of Commitment?
Hesitation brought about by a niggling doubt, or gut-instinct that once the decision is made there will be no turning back, no get-out clause, little or no freedom to choose another course of action?

Wednesday, 25 June 2008

Develop Your Spark!


My friend recently slapped me on the wrist for saying that I only want to date gorgeous women. Apparently someone like me should be less fickle and know that real beauty was on the inside. I’ve been hearing this all my life from women who don’t think they are gorgeous and I don’t buy it.

I remember when my kids were born and I’ll be honest, they looked to me like over-baked potatoes. In fact, all newborns look like potatoes the only people who don’t see it are those photographers who stalk the maternity wards trying to make a financial killing selling over-priced pictures of little over-baked potatoes and the little over-baked potatoes sleep-deprived, drugged-up mummies. It’s true!!

Sunday, 1 June 2008

My Story




All great inspirational teachers and speakers have a story. It begins with something like “10 years ago I sat down and re-evaluated my life, created a vision of what my ideal life could be and amazingly my life changed”. I’ve never had a story until…